Are you ready
for sex? Chances are if you're reading this your body is ready
to seal the deal. But are you ready emotionally? Have you
prepared to top, bottom, or looked into other ways to be
intimate like frottage, rimming, or oral?
And these days you can't be too safe or sure a guy is "clean" by
the way he looks or from what he says. Given that, have you
thought ways to be safe?
Sex may seem simple: give, receive, relieve. But, sex can be far
more complication, especially if you're not prepared.
Let's start with
emotions
Some guys can be physical without experiencing emotional
connections. Others, however, prefer some level of emotional
bonding before being intimate. Have you thought about where you
lay on the spectrum? More on sex and emotions.
Now, on to preparing to
top or bottom
It's obvious how to top or bottom: One person penetrates and the
other receives. But, how do you know if you're a top or bottom?
And even them, are you a good top or bottom? And, are you
prepared to do either?
Do you know how to be
safe?
Once you've chosen to have sex, there are a number of ways to
reduce the risk of contracting an STD. About.com STD Guide
Elizabeth Boskey, Ph.D. says, "First, you need to know yourself.
Second, you need to know your partner. And third? You need to
know about condoms and safer sex." Track these safer sex tips
and ways to avoid getting an STD.
Not into anal?
Despite the common myth, not all gay men like anal sex. There
are many ways men can be intimate with one another without
having anal sex. Two very common ways are intercrural sex and
frottage. Both of these types of non-penetrative sex can be used
as foreplay or for complete intimacy.
Oral sex
Pace yourself and relax to perform good oral sex.
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